Tuesday, July 15, 2014

"Perfect Revolution"

Global Friendship

Sowing Seeds for a "Perfect Revolution"

Power of Speech comes with a much greater responsibility. It should be exercised keeping in mind the greater good for all rather than individual interests. Opinions should be rooted towards advancements not finger pointing





As a Proud Pakistani American I was all up for the Irvine Friendship Cities Program, initiated with all good intentions . The core and solitary idea behind it was to extend hand in Friendship with various cities of the world and to promote and maintain healthy ties between them in order for the global progression. This simple thought was not conjured for any political, religious reasons or for personal fulfillment in the city office.
Irvine is fairly a newly developed city from amongst the many in Orange County of Southern California. It blankets people from various different communities. What makes this particular city segment out, is not merely its diversified nature but more so the attitude of its citizens towards each other. The exuberance and the active partaking, the people of Irvine exhibits from the Global village festival held yearly to supporting their local schools to exercising their freedom of speech at the City Council. Just recently the city has been ranked as one of the top best cities of United States in terms of safety, education and merely living in. And so the Friendship Cities Proposal, was a small stride initiated to keep harmonious relations not only amongst the residents of Irvine but to recognize their place of origin and form enthusiastic bonds in all good spirit.
I, with many others very naïvely and eagerly assembled at the city council on the 8th of April 2014, to speak in support of this thought. As a proud Pakistani American, I was enthralled by the idea of Karachi, my birth place being in the nominations.
One could only imagine the simple truth of the term, "Dirty Politics", when one has a chance of witnessing it. As an educator it was an eye opener for me to witness a sea of people readily speaking and corroborating against the modest, straightforward agenda.
People representing other ethical groups came across as rigid and proved themselves as dwellers of the problems. In the words of my friend, "If we start extending friendships towards other nations keeping in mind their human rights policies and records this world would be an EVEN colder place".
The simple hand in friendship can essentially work towards cultivating the current situations of many cities around the world. It would only be an optimistic step, a small one rather than the political foreign affairs agenda discussed by the Great Giants ruling. In those anyhow the essence of establishing any positive relations is lost in the political rant safe guarding their office posts.
What was more disappointing was the reaction from the Mayor. The city council was no less than a fish market or rather an exposed capacity for a pimp who very viciously and tactfully sells its product to the highest bidder, bidding. Here, inside the city chambers the innocent idea was cunningly and insight-fully sold out to those who are the champions in upholding their office posts from time to time.
To kill two birds with one stone, was very proudly put in practical practice by the Mayor and city council members making the meek residents as their bait.
The Friendship Cities Program was a positive reflection on how a democracy should function not primarily within its geographical boundaries but on a transnational level, educating citizens of the world about the varied nature of this precise world we reside in. Only such a step would engage humans globally together for the greater good of all. Only such a step would help in spanning the gap between nations of different realms in respect to each of their supreme cultures, religions and even politics. It is this Friendship step which would attest as a common ground for humble inhabitants, whoever they maybe and from where ever they may be.
What the mayor was not aware of before labeling Karachi as a "Taliban City", that it houses people like Sharmeen Obaid Chinoy, Ameen Gulgee, Saba Ikram to name a few. It serves as one of the largest Democratic Metropolitan cities in Asia. What the mayor unfortunately was ignorant of was the simple fact that Junoon ( one of the largest rock music bands of Asia) performed LIVE at UN General Assembly Hall on Oct 24, 2001 on United Nations Day in NY. The city itself is the Mecca Hub of Pakistan in terms of foreign businesses. The mayor didn't have his facts in place that in 2007, the World Bank identified Karachi as the most business-friendly city in Pakistan. In 2010, It was researched by Mercer to be the most inexpensive cities in the world. It is home to some of the best world-renowned universities and the foreign boards of education including that in the United States recognizes the caliber of these educational institutions.
Perfection is a dictionary term which should NOT be used when blathering about nations, rather working towards in harmony with each other is a very meager step towards attaining it.
Lets keep aside "us" for a moment and create a better world for those yet to come.
Lets leave behind a legacy of positivity and sow seeds of love, friendship and harmony at a global level, so that our generations reap and follow on our benchmark.
Lets for once think of a revolution outside of archery, weapons, nuclear weapons and manslaughter. Lets for once scratch in history a revolution on "Friendship".
Lets use the freedom of speech towards betterment rather than personal judgment.
let Martin Luther King's Dream takes its wings further beyond the horizons of the ' Land of the Free and Home of the Brave"…
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Published by Ifra Khoso

(A Walk to Remember)

A Grandeur Walk on the Sky

Skywalk on the Canyon, (A Walk to Remember)

The Grand Canyon, one of the natural wonders of the world. It is magnificent and magical. An experience of a life time

Parenting: What it truly is?

The "i" Society


 "The true sign of intelligence is not knowledge but imagination"
Albert Einstein
While passing a table of four at a local restaurant, my eyes couldn't escape the funny sight. Two children under the age of five each heavily engrossed with their personal i pads. Their dad busy with his own i device. I chuckled as the lady at the table shifted her gaze from one to the next. The perfect "i "family.
True, with advancements in technology life has become easier and globally we are just a click, an app or a tab away from each other.
"It is a small world", phrase describes the "i" gadgets strikingly. The entire world, well almost, is summed up in mini sized icons on the screen of this device.
Apart from making calls, its prime function; it is helpful in doing homework, makes shopping hell easy and is a convenient baby sitter. It is even your buddy when boredom and loneliness raids and cracks you up with its creative answers to your monologue questions.
The fourth grade state testing requires children to know how to use a manual dictionary and which source to look into to locate a place. No, the answer is definitely not a website or an app.
Today, times have surely changed. Our children use sophisticated tools to look up for a meaning, do research online and instead of working on their penmanship and creativity, they polish their skills of, "copy and paste".
We need to ponder hard that whether usage of these mechanisms is beneficial in the long run.
Usually we proudly complement our little ones saying that how genius they are in grasping the latest moving technologies but become defensive when it comes to acquiring basic social surviving skills such as self-feeding and toilet training. What we have forgotten is the simple fact, young minds are extremely absorbent. They mould accordingly to their environment.
Technology has to be for the betterment of the society with correct usage at the correct time is essential as it can only go so far and then comes the human mind.

Special Poem for my Son on his 9th Birthday.

 
 
A Special Poem Composed Only for My Son, Mir Essa Khoso on His 9th Birthday. April 06, 2012
 
 By | At Home – Fri, Apr 6, 2012
 
 
 
For the man in my life who revealed the truth about it all
His little fingers entwined with mine and forever we began to fall
In this lasting journey of reliance, amity and love
With reverence tailing our paths, above
He is my forte, dream and pride
He says for him, I am the best alright
I still vividly remember when I held him first in my arms
His captivating smile,
His twinkling eyes,
His coos and cries
With each passing year he grew and prospered
And kept nurturing me when my strength wouldn't muster
He is nine now and I wonder where time went...
When my little baby became the boy he is today
I pray to Almighty that may he continually be blessed
With the kind personality that he possess
May he always be respectful to all
And burning fire to learn never fall
May he climb with humility the ladder of success
And rise with dignity with each tumbling step
May he become the source of inspiration for all
And may he be the candle which others want
He says I am the best cook
And hugs me tight
To me he will always be my little guy
Who showed me what it truly means to "Fly High". By: Ifra Khoso

Happy 9th birthday Essa :-)